My dear readers,

(Doesn’t that salutation make me sound like a Nigerian prince?  But then I would have said dearest.)

My new book Pandemic of Lunacy: How to Think Clearly When Everyone Around You Seems Crazy is coming out on February 3.  Right after Christmas, I was interviewed about it by Tom Loarie of TheMentorsRadio.com.  His popular podcast deals with all sorts of things at the intersection of life and work, featuring conversations with CEO and other prominent figures in the business world – with a few exceptions like me, of course.

He had a lot of thoughtful questions, and I think you’ll find the interview interesting.  We talked less about the content of the book than about what prompted me to write it.  Something strange is happening to us:  Why does our society seem to be going crazy?  (As another reader remarked to me:  “Why do you say seems to?) 

You can find the interview linked on my Talks Page, if you would rather go straight to the audio you can do that too, and if you would like to find out more about Tom Loarie’s podcast series, you can go his own website, TheMentorsRadio.com.

“New Years and such things are extraordinarily valuable.  They are arbitrary divisions of time; they are a sudden and ceaseless cutting in two of time.  But when we have an endless serpent in front of us, what can we do but cut it in two? Time is apparently endless and it is beyond all question a serpent.  The real reason why times and seasons and feasts and anniversaries arose is because this serpent of time would otherwise drag his slow length along over all our impressions, and there would be no opportunity of sharply realizing the change from one impression to another ….  It would be good if we expected a bell to ring towards the end of a sunset.  It would be good if we thought the clock might strike while we were in the perfect pleasure of staring at sea and sky.  Such a sudden check would bring all our impressions into an intense and enjoyable compass, would make the vast sky a single sapphire, the vast sea a single emerald.  After long experience of the glories of sensation men find that it is necessary to put to our feelings this perfect artistic limit.  And after a little longer experience they find that the God in whom they hardly believe has, as the perfect artist, put the perfect artistic limit – death.

“Death is a time limit; but differs in many ways from New Year’s Day.  The divisions of time which men have adopted are in a sort of way a mild mortality.  When we see the Old Year out, we do what many eminent men have done, and what all men desire to do; we die temporarily.  Whenever we admit that it is Tuesday we fulfil St.  Paul, and die daily.  I doubt if the strongest stoic that ever existed on earth could endure the idea of a Tuesday following on a Tuesday, and a Tuesday on that, and a Tuesday on that, and all the days being Tuesdays till the Day of Judgment, which might be (by some strange and special mercy) a Wednesday.  The divisions of time are arranged so that we may have a start or shock at each reopening of the question.

“The object of a New Year is not that we should have new year.  It is that we should have a new soul and a new nose; new feet, a new backbone, new ears, and new eyes.  It is that we should look out instantaneously on an impossible earth; that we should think it very odd that grass should be green instead of being reasonably purple; that we should think it almost unintelligible that a lot of straight trees should grow out of the round world instead of a lot of round worlds growing out of the straight trees.  The object of the cold and hard definitions of time is almost exactly the same as those of the cold and hard definitions of theology; it is to wake people up.  Unless a particular man made New Year resolutions, he would make no resolutions.  Unless a man starts afresh about things, he will certainly do nothing effective.  Unless a man starts on the strange assumption that he has never existed before, it is quite certain that he will never exist afterwards.  Unless a man be born again, he shall by no means enter into the Kingdom of Heaven.

“.… Man has, as I have urged in the case of religion, perceived with a tolerable accuracy his own needs.  He has seen that we tend to tire of the most eternal splendours, and that a mark on our calendar, or a crash of bells at midnight maybe, reminds us that we have only recently been created.  Let us make New Year resolutions, but not only resolutions to be good.  Also resolutions to notice that we have feet, and thank them (with a courtly bow) for carrying us.”

— G.K.  Chesterton, Daily News (01-01-1904)

This Christmas night bestowed peace on the whole world;

So let no one threaten;

This is the night of the Most Gentle One -

Let no one be cruel;

This is the night of the Humble One -

Let no one be proud.

Now is the day of joy -

Let us not revenge;

Now is the day of Good Will -

Let us not be mean.

In this Day of Peace -

Let us not be conquered by anger.

Today the Bountiful impoverished Himself for our sake;

So, rich one, invite the poor to your table.

Today we receive a Gift for which we did not ask;

So let us give alms to those who implore and beg us.

This present Day cast open the heavenly doors to our prayers;

Let us open our door to those who ask our forgiveness.

Today the Divine Being took upon Himself the seal of our humanity,

In order for humanity to be decorated by the Seal of Divinity.

-- From a Christmas sermon by St. Isaac the Syrian

In a famous incident in the gospels, Peter asked Jesus, “Lord, how often shall my brother sin against me, and I forgive him?  As many as seven times?”  Jesus replies, “I do not say to you seven times, but seventy times seven.”  Some writers say this means that our forgiveness must be unlimited, as God’s is unlimited, and that we must not keep track.  The common saying is “forgive and forget.”

But this view blurs a number of distinctions.

In the first place, God’s forgiveness is limited in certain ways.  In this sense it really has no limit:  There is no repented sin too great for Him to forgive.  He lays Himself across the chasm.  But in this sense it does have a limit:  He will not forgive known, grave sin which I obstinately refuse to repent; refusal to repent is precisely refusal of forgiveness, refusal that the chasm be crossed.

In the second place, God does keep track in certain ways.  In this sense He really doesn’t keep track:  When He forgives me, He forgives me completely, and is willing for me to be entirely reconciled to Him, setting my forgiven sins as far from Him as the east is from the west.  But in this sense He does keep track:  If I sin and repent, sin and repent, in an endless cycle of wrong and remorse, then even though He forgives me, He is not satisfied.  In His inexorable love, He will not settle for cleansing my guilt but leaving all my sinful tendencies intact.  He demands that I submit to His surgery.

Besides, God does not desire that we be hurt.  Suppose my brother has wronged me seventy times seven times, and then repented seventy times seven times.  Yes, I must forgive him seventy times seven times -- but I am not required to expose myself to further harm seventy times seven times.  Must a battered wife continue living in the same household as her violent husband?

Does forgiveness require not wanting the wrongdoer not be punished?  No, that would not even be kind to the wrongdoer, because justice is medicinal.  Does it require acting as though reconciliation has taken place, even though it hasn’t?  No, that would leave us vulnerable to those still likely to hurt us.  Does it require indifference to whether the wrongdoer repents?  No.  Concerning those who nailed Him to the Cross, Jesus did not pray, “Father, forgive them, because they need not be sorry for their sins,” but “Father, forgive them, because they know not what they do.”

Speaking for myself, when I do wrong, I usually know very well what I do.

Then what does forgiveness require?  It requires that I let go of bitterness, setting aside the desire to hurt back, trusting in God’s justice.  It requires that I hope for the wrongdoer’s change of heart, trusting in His grace.  It requires a desire for ultimate reconciliation with the wrongdoer, even while realizing that this may not be possible in the present life.

And it requires that I remember the mercy that I myself have received, for I have greatly sinned.

Those who are curious about my forthcoming book, Pandemic of Lunacy: How to Think Clearly When Everyone Around You Seems Crazy – that’s everyone, correct? -- can now read two samples:  A preview, including the Table of Contents and the Introduction, is here, but you need to scroll down and click the words "Read Preview" under the cover image.  The other sample, about the lunacy of materialism, is right here.

And that is my post for the week!  Except to tell you that the book will be released early in February, and that you can pre-order it now.  Happy reading!